Mediation

Mediation

It is well known that matrimonial disputes have a large effect on the emotions, mental health, egos and feelings of the parties involved. Human nature is unfortunately difficult to predict. Accordingly, it can be difficult to see that, on occasions, we may not necessarily be correct or right in our views or actions and, equally, that others may be right, even though that may not support a position or view held. Ultimately, no one is perfect
Having perspective relating to other people’s points of views and positions can help relationships succeed. However, this is not always the case. In these situations, the engagement of a counsellor or mediator may be warranted and prudent. Counsellors and mediators are always impartial and can look at the situation involving the parties in an objective manner. In many cases, counsellors and mediators can and will make suggestions to the parties to help resolve issues and rebuild and repair relationships that have fractured.

That said, there are always cases where counselling and mediation may be futile, though it is hoped these are rare. In these circumstances the counsellor or mediator may suggest that divorce is the best option for the parties. Though this can be difficult to accept, it is sometimes the case where a relationship is beyond repair and the spouses are unable to reconcile their differences or solve their problems.

However, in any situation, mediation and counselling can be beneficial. All issues can be addressed and the interests of all the parties will be considered, which is particularly important when dealing with issues like child custody and divorce.

Accordingly, we suggest and facilitate counselling and mediation in any situation where we think it might be beneficial to the interests of the parties, and may save time, costs, and stress.